As the old saying goes, when you marry someone, you also marry their family. Royal bride-to-be Meghan Markle probably knows this better than perhaps anyone out there, and industry experts agree, she’s scoring wins across the board from her future in-laws.

“Meghan is immersing herself in all training procedures to become Royal,” says Amy Conrad, events and wedding expert. “She’s not assuming that an American-raised woman can become royalty overnight. She has dedicated herself to this man and his lifestyle by having their future wedding ceremony led by the Lord Chamberlain’s office. She also been baptized and confirmed before the Church of England.”